It’s probably best to start off sharing my philosophy on how to experience a life well lived. My belief is that it is accomplished by focusing one’s attention on those things you have control over, avoiding anxiety and stress over matters outside your control. While ALS controls my body, I refuse to let it control my mind. That is why you see me smiling.
I smile because I am focusing on how my world has changed in many positive ways since I eliminated the stress of running my practice, which I sold July 1, 2019. First and foremost, unlike what you might hear from others about the stress sequestration has had on their relationship with their spouse, my relationship with Karen has only improved. I love her cooking, the way she smiles when she beats me at cards and cornhole, and most importantly, I am so appreciative of the care, tenderness and patience she exhibits as my physical abilities deteriorate.

Besides my wife, my greatest joy comes from spending as much time as possible with family and friends. Since we must socialize from a distance, I haven’t been shy about bombarding friends and family with recurring requests for Zoom or FaceTime virtual cocktail hour gatherings.
What my attitude does, however, is give the illusion that everything is okay physically, even though it is not. My interactions with people who know I have ALS often conclude with a comment that I look great and I seem to be doing extremely well. One of my dearest friends even thought I might be in remission. Unfortunately, there is no remission and there is no cure, only the daily fight to stay strong mentally, adjust to the new normal and not let the noticeable deterioration in my body or physical abilities overwhelm and control me.
Currently, there are no effective cures or treatments to stop the progression of ALS. Scientists at the ALS Therapy Development Institute (ALS TDI) are working hard to change this, but they need our help. Funding is urgently needed to maintain the pace of research. I believe in ALS TDI's mission, leadership, and research.
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